I am thrilled to announce the arrival of a new magazine BY writers and FOR writers! THE LITERARY CITIZEN is a digital magazine published tri-annually to connect members of the writing community, offer tips on genre and craft, showcase local authors, and share what it means to be a member of the literary world.
The idea for THE LITERARY CITIZEN was born after an inspiring talk by Mike Czyniewieski at the Ozarks Writers League conference in November, 2016. He spoke about supporting fellow authors, upcoming writers, and the reading public in a variety of simple steps anyone can take. This concept of being a citizen of the arts community coincided perfectly with an idea I had been developing to offer some kind of newsletter or resource for a largely rural area. And let’s face it…writing is a solitary business. It’s nice to look out and see some fellow workers once in a while!
And so, I developed this magazine to meet a need in my literary community. My writing friends were incredibly gracious in coming up with stellar articles to contribute, and I couldn’t have done it without them.
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I think about a heart breaking. Where do the pieces go? Are they absorbed into the bloodstream? Fall to the soles of my feet? Turn to dust and get carried away on the wind?
I think a broken heart – really broken and crushed – shatters and is flung into the world. That is why we feel so lost, abandoned, displaced from the earth. We carry a star in our chests, and when it goes supernova there is no way to recapture it all.
But then time passes. Some things change. We cobble together the remnants that we can find and press them together so we can go on. Yet, pieces are missing. They are too far away to reach, to even be seen. And we think they are lost.
My gift recently was rediscovering a friend – a significant piece of my heart that I thought was gone forever. Turns out, it had just gone to California. She’s been around the world, changed her name, dyed her hair, pierced her face, gone back to school, had a kid, and lived 20 years away from me. And she is just the same. Just as dear and intelligent and thoughtful and kind. Actually, no. She is more so.
I had gotten used to the vacancy in my heart, the missing piece. It’s certainly not the only one. But it felt so good to have it back again. It blended seamlessly with the heart I have now, even spreading to some of the more brittle parts and strengthening them. We had one day to catch up on 20 years. But balm is like that. You put it on once and it keeps working long after.
A phoenix rising from the ashes of its old life is beautiful and inspiring. But I am no phoenix. I am old and new, cracked and mended, gathering the pieces of heart that I have missed. I am not the phoenix. I am the one who watches the phoenix rise, and I smile from my place on the ground. The phoenix flies for me.
I recently read Barbara Sher’s It’s Only Too Late If You Don’t Start Now, and while it was good for those in a mid-life crisis, it wasn’t really what I was looking for. However, nothing is wasted, and I found these six nuggets to ponder on. I think they apply to anyone who is making a change, moving on, or letting go.
Respect Reality. It’s bigger than you are.
A waste of Time is a waste of Talent.
Do your part and forget about the rest.
When you stop wanting the carrot, and the stick no longer hurts, you’re going to turn into a donkey with an opinion.
(This is a great one for breaking the negative cycle in your life. Dare to be a donkey with an opinion!)
Disapproval doesn’t bother me as much as it used to.
Be good only to the good people.
Do you have any favorite quotes that help you deal with the ups and downs of life? Please share them here. We need all we can get!